Dirty XY Girl

So what’s your “real” gender?

I’m a girl.  I’m MAAB (male-assigned-at-birth) and was raised as a male.  I spent years battling gender issues and came out as a transgender woman a couple of years ago. 

Have you had surgery?

Gender transition can involve many surgeries.  I have had none.  I’ll most likely end up having at least three.

Do you take hormones?

Yes.  Been on HRT since mid-2010.

Do you plan on getting genital surgery?

Yes, although it will be many years until I can afford it (vaginoplasty is roughly $20,000).  I am, however, relatively comfortable with my cock in the meantime.

What’s your orientation?

I consider myself a lesbian.  I like cisgender girls and trans-girls, and from time to time find myself interested in trans-men as well as some genderqueer and androgynous people.  I enjoy both cunts and cocks.  I generally find cisgender boys highly unpleasant.

Show me pics!

No.  This is a blog about stuff I like, not about what I look like.  I mainly have this blog as something to share with real life friends, and they already know what I look like.

Your girlfriend is butch.  Do you mainly like butch girls?

No.  I love butch girls, but I also love femme dykes, bois, and all sorts of other girls.  If anything, I’m less focused on butch girls right now because I already have one.

What does “polyamorous” mean?

Polyamory is a form of nonmonogamy.   It’s based on the idea that loving one person doesn’t make you less capable of loving someone else.  In our relationship, my girlfriend and I are both free to fuck, date, and fall in love with whomever else we want to without restrictions aside from just being open with each other about what’s going on.  I haven’t been in a monogamous relationship in a decade and would never be in one again.